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RitcheyRch
01-22-2007, 09:59 AM
http://www.cnn.com/2007/LAW/01/22/deadly.triangle.ap/index.html
He was an 18-year-old Marine headed to war.
She was an attractive young woman sending him off with pictures and lingerie.
Or so each one thought.
In reality, they were two middle-aged people carrying on an Internet fantasy based on seemingly harmless lies.
When a truthful 22-year-old was drawn in, authorities say, their cyber escape turned deadly.
"When you're on the Internet talking, you haven't got a clue who that is on the other end," Erie County Sheriff's Lt. Ron Kenyon said. "You don't have a clue."
Puzzling shooting death
When Brian Barrett was shot to death on September 15 outside the factory where he worked to help pay for college, investigators and his family were stumped.
Barrett, 22, was an aspiring industrial arts teacher, an accomplished high school athlete who had coached Little League all summer and helped his father coach soccer. Those who knew the Buffalo State College student described him as quiet and unassuming.
He had clearly been targeted. Barrett was shot three times at close range in the neck and left arm after climbing into his truck about 10 p.m. at the end of a shift at Dynabrade Corp. in Clarence, 20 miles outside of Buffalo. His body was found two days later when a co-worker spotted his pickup in an isolated part of the company parking lot.
"He was just a nice kid, a gentleman," said Starpoint High School Athletic Director Tom Sarkovics, who was Barrett's baseball coach for two years. "I don't think anybody could say a bad thing about him."
Co-worker charged
On November 27, Barrett's 47-year-old co-worker and friend, Thomas Montgomery, was charged with Barrett's murder. The motive, investigators said, was jealousy over Barrett's budding Internet relationship with the same 18-year-old woman Montgomery had been wooing since the previous year.
What neither man knew was that the woman was really a 40-something West Virginia mother using her daughter's identity to attract Internet suitors.
Cyberspace, it appeared, was enough for her, and it was a near certainty she would never have met either man.
"The game would have been over at that point and time for sure," Kenyon said.
When Montgomery began chatting with the woman in 2005, the former Marine portrayed himself as perhaps a previous version of himself -- a young Marine preparing for deployment to Iraq, Assistant District Attorney Ken Case said.
For a time, they communicated strictly through chat rooms and e-mail.
Then the woman began sending gifts to Montgomery's home, Case said. Pictures of the woman's daughter, lingerie and a set of custom-made dog tags arrived at the pale yellow suburban house that Montgomery shared with his wife and two teenage children.
Wife intercepted gift
Montgomery's wife intercepted one of the packages, Case said. She wrote back to the woman at the return address, and included a family portrait to make her point.
"As you can see, Tom's not 18," Case said she wrote. "He's married and he's a father of two. He's 47 and I'm his wife." And, believing she was writing to an 18-year-old: "You've obviously been fooled."
The West Virginia woman -- whom authorities will not identify -- remembered a friend named Brian that Montgomery had mentioned. She recalled enough of his computer screen name to contact Barrett to ask him about what Montgomery's wife had told her.
Soon Barrett was in regular contact with the woman. Despite knowing the truth about Montgomery, the woman remained in contact with him as well, Case said.
The woman made no secret of the fact she was chatting with Barrett, Case said, and Barrett talked about the relationship at work. Montgomery, authorities say, became jealous.
Wife files for divorce
Sheriff's investigators believe Barrett's killer wore camouflage and a ski mask when he approached Barrett in the parking lot with a .30-caliber rifle and fired at close range.
Montgomery is being held without bail after pleading not guilty to second-degree murder. Tall and with thinning hair, glasses and a mustache, he said nothing at a procedural court appearance on January 10.
He is due back in court in June.
His wife, whom authorities have not named, has begun divorce proceedings, Case said. She did not respond to a message left at Montgomery's home in suburban Cheektowaga or answer a reporter's knock there.
Internet crime expert J.A. Hitchcock, author of "Net Crimes & Misdemeanors," said the case illustrates the dangers that lurk on the web.
"I'm hoping that this case will make people think twice about what they do online and what their actions can cause in the long run," she said

ratso
01-22-2007, 10:09 AM
http://www.cnn.com/2007/LAW/01/22/deadly.triangle.ap/index.html
He was an 18-year-old Marine headed to war.
She was an attractive young woman sending him off with pictures and lingerie.
Or so each one thought.
In reality, they were two middle-aged people carrying on an Internet fantasy based on seemingly harmless lies.
When a truthful 22-year-old was drawn in, authorities say, their cyber escape turned deadly.
"When you're on the Internet talking, you haven't got a clue who that is on the other end," Erie County Sheriff's Lt. Ron Kenyon said. "You don't have a clue."
Puzzling shooting death
When Brian Barrett was shot to death on September 15 outside the factory where he worked to help pay for college, investigators and his family were stumped.
Barrett, 22, was an aspiring industrial arts teacher, an accomplished high school athlete who had coached Little League all summer and helped his father coach soccer. Those who knew the Buffalo State College student described him as quiet and unassuming.
He had clearly been targeted. Barrett was shot three times at close range in the neck and left arm after climbing into his truck about 10 p.m. at the end of a shift at Dynabrade Corp. in Clarence, 20 miles outside of Buffalo. His body was found two days later when a co-worker spotted his pickup in an isolated part of the company parking lot.
"He was just a nice kid, a gentleman," said Starpoint High School Athletic Director Tom Sarkovics, who was Barrett's baseball coach for two years. "I don't think anybody could say a bad thing about him."
Co-worker charged
On November 27, Barrett's 47-year-old co-worker and friend, Thomas Montgomery, was charged with Barrett's murder. The motive, investigators said, was jealousy over Barrett's budding Internet relationship with the same 18-year-old woman Montgomery had been wooing since the previous year.
What neither man knew was that the woman was really a 40-something West Virginia mother using her daughter's identity to attract Internet suitors.
Cyberspace, it appeared, was enough for her, and it was a near certainty she would never have met either man.
"The game would have been over at that point and time for sure," Kenyon said.
When Montgomery began chatting with the woman in 2005, the former Marine portrayed himself as perhaps a previous version of himself -- a young Marine preparing for deployment to Iraq, Assistant District Attorney Ken Case said.
For a time, they communicated strictly through chat rooms and e-mail.
Then the woman began sending gifts to Montgomery's home, Case said. Pictures of the woman's daughter, lingerie and a set of custom-made dog tags arrived at the pale yellow suburban house that Montgomery shared with his wife and two teenage children.
Wife intercepted gift
Montgomery's wife intercepted one of the packages, Case said. She wrote back to the woman at the return address, and included a family portrait to make her point.
"As you can see, Tom's not 18," Case said she wrote. "He's married and he's a father of two. He's 47 and I'm his wife." And, believing she was writing to an 18-year-old: "You've obviously been fooled."
The West Virginia woman -- whom authorities will not identify -- remembered a friend named Brian that Montgomery had mentioned. She recalled enough of his computer screen name to contact Barrett to ask him about what Montgomery's wife had told her.
Soon Barrett was in regular contact with the woman. Despite knowing the truth about Montgomery, the woman remained in contact with him as well, Case said.
The woman made no secret of the fact she was chatting with Barrett, Case said, and Barrett talked about the relationship at work. Montgomery, authorities say, became jealous.
Wife files for divorce
Sheriff's investigators believe Barrett's killer wore camouflage and a ski mask when he approached Barrett in the parking lot with a .30-caliber rifle and fired at close range.
Montgomery is being held without bail after pleading not guilty to second-degree murder. Tall and with thinning hair, glasses and a mustache, he said nothing at a procedural court appearance on January 10.
He is due back in court in June.
His wife, whom authorities have not named, has begun divorce proceedings, Case said. She did not respond to a message left at Montgomery's home in suburban Cheektowaga or answer a reporter's knock there.
Internet crime expert J.A. Hitchcock, author of "Net Crimes & Misdemeanors," said the case illustrates the dangers that lurk on the web.
"I'm hoping that this case will make people think twice about what they do online and what their actions can cause in the long run," she said
Online... the bar scene... wherever, it happens. Lying and cheating on line is no different than doing it to someones face. Play the game... you might pay the price. You never know when someone is gonna self-destruct.

BigDoug
01-22-2007, 10:23 AM
Amen............brother !! :)

Trailer Park Casanova
01-22-2007, 11:13 AM
Online... the bar scene... wherever, it happens. Lying and cheating on line is no different than doing it to someones face. Play the game... you might pay the price. You never know when someone is gonna self-destruct.
Yep,, there it is.

TAF
01-22-2007, 11:40 AM
I was married for 12 yrs. to someone I met through a dating service and since divorced have dated primarily through the internet but had become turned off by it because most of 'em have given the impression they just wanna have fun drinking partying and get'n laid. They want to relive their youth or what they didn't do when they were young.
Look'n for a relationship?:idea:

ratso
01-22-2007, 12:03 PM
Drink, Party, Get Laid... nah, that doesn't sound like any fun lol...:D

Trailer Park Casanova
01-22-2007, 03:37 PM
The only way to look at Internet dating is that it is for sex based relationships.
In the very unlikely event that it leads to more than that,, then perhaps it's a bonus.
All the chix on there lie,, all of them, and they are usually hiding something scary:
Some weird religious cult, a lothsome communicable disease,, a screwy phobia, they're hopelessly frigid-yet-lonely,,
- they're all hiding some big 1000 lb pink striped gorilla in their closet, and your sole mission is to pollinate their flower with your nectar before the Gorilla gets out and grabs a hold of you.

Jbb
01-22-2007, 03:46 PM
The only way to look at Internet dating is that it is for sex based relationships.
In the very unlikely event that it leads to more than that,, then perhaps it's a bonus.
All the chix on there lie,, all of them, and they are usually hiding something scary:
Some weird religious cult, a lothsome communicable disease,, a screwy phobia, they're hopelessly frigid-yet-lonely,,
- they're all hiding some big 1000 lb pink striped gorilla in their closet.
lmao.....:D :D