ratso
10-19-2007, 01:42 PM
So, I've been kind of seeing this Oriental chick for a while...
I guess the first time I ever laid eyes on her was about 10 years ago. She seemed unapproachable and WAY out of my league... and then she disappeared into thin air, until a few weeks ago. She was out, we were introduced and hit it off immediately. A few drinks and we were all over each other. Before we could even finish our second "date" we again were all over each other literally ripping each others clothes off. Everything was awesome... and then she went out of town for a couple of weeks on business. We talked a couple of times while she was gone... and then she disappeared again. I called once or twice and sent a couple of text messages... nothing. I get a call last night finally. It was her, wanting to meet out and talk. We met up at a restaurant and sat out on their outdoor patio. We talked about how she had been married up until about 4 years ago, went through a wild stage, and then turned her life around... she is a very successful woman. She also told me she learned what she needed from a man, aside from a sex life that has been off the hook lately... and it wasn't me. She claims that she will follow her head instead of her heart, because the lust and love eventually wears off. Men go for the looks, whereas women go for more of a provider, looks are usually secondary to other things (her sister is married to some hot shot with Dell Computers)... and she will provide for her man above and beyond the call of duty. She goes on to say that she can't handle my lifestyle and knows I'll never settle down... she is into bible study, mission trips, and giving to charities, and Ratso "don't go there"... She claims that when she met me, she fell off the wagon, and I said "Yeah, right on to my cock"... I told her that I can't understand how you'll be with someone and marry someone that doesn't "do it" for you emotionally and sexually, but will settle for someone simply because you're heading the same direction and have the same goals in life, like a marriage of convenience... I really don't get it. I have to have someone there that I lust after, love with all my heart, and feel that I can't live without. We had a couple more drinks as we talked. I guess I'm the type that thinks no matter how opposite you may be, if you're really into each other, there is a possibility it can work. She can do her mission trip or whatever in December, and I can go to Vegas. She can do her prayer stuff and I can sit in the living room thumbing through a Playboy. She can give to charities and I can stick a few bucks in the G-string of some hot blonde at the strip club. At the end of the day, all that really matters is you are with someone you are truly in love with and would die for... I walked her to her car, had an awesome passionate kiss, and I wished her the best. Damn, that's a tough one to let go...
I guess the first time I ever laid eyes on her was about 10 years ago. She seemed unapproachable and WAY out of my league... and then she disappeared into thin air, until a few weeks ago. She was out, we were introduced and hit it off immediately. A few drinks and we were all over each other. Before we could even finish our second "date" we again were all over each other literally ripping each others clothes off. Everything was awesome... and then she went out of town for a couple of weeks on business. We talked a couple of times while she was gone... and then she disappeared again. I called once or twice and sent a couple of text messages... nothing. I get a call last night finally. It was her, wanting to meet out and talk. We met up at a restaurant and sat out on their outdoor patio. We talked about how she had been married up until about 4 years ago, went through a wild stage, and then turned her life around... she is a very successful woman. She also told me she learned what she needed from a man, aside from a sex life that has been off the hook lately... and it wasn't me. She claims that she will follow her head instead of her heart, because the lust and love eventually wears off. Men go for the looks, whereas women go for more of a provider, looks are usually secondary to other things (her sister is married to some hot shot with Dell Computers)... and she will provide for her man above and beyond the call of duty. She goes on to say that she can't handle my lifestyle and knows I'll never settle down... she is into bible study, mission trips, and giving to charities, and Ratso "don't go there"... She claims that when she met me, she fell off the wagon, and I said "Yeah, right on to my cock"... I told her that I can't understand how you'll be with someone and marry someone that doesn't "do it" for you emotionally and sexually, but will settle for someone simply because you're heading the same direction and have the same goals in life, like a marriage of convenience... I really don't get it. I have to have someone there that I lust after, love with all my heart, and feel that I can't live without. We had a couple more drinks as we talked. I guess I'm the type that thinks no matter how opposite you may be, if you're really into each other, there is a possibility it can work. She can do her mission trip or whatever in December, and I can go to Vegas. She can do her prayer stuff and I can sit in the living room thumbing through a Playboy. She can give to charities and I can stick a few bucks in the G-string of some hot blonde at the strip club. At the end of the day, all that really matters is you are with someone you are truly in love with and would die for... I walked her to her car, had an awesome passionate kiss, and I wished her the best. Damn, that's a tough one to let go...