I have a 99 Ram 3500 w/ the Cummins and I change the oil and filter every 3000 miles. I know many books and techs now say you can go 7500 - 12,000 miles depending on how and where you are driving, but the way I look at it is that the oil is the life of your engine. I have had friends with my identical setup that would go 15,000 miles and it still didn't seem to be a problem. Seems to be a preference of the owner. A few extra bucks to keep it running good doesn't bother me and I'm 150,000 miles going strong!!
Just my .02.