Hey Matt,
I can't help you with the car business but I wanted to chime in what little support I can.
I'm sorry about your mom. You are still a fortunate man in that you have a beautiful family and you guys are there for each other. It was great to hear that your son is doing better. Deb is a great woman. She will handle the hardships that are upon her.
Don't let it take away your strength. Good times are ahead, my friend.
- Tom