To each there own, but I seem to be missing the purpose of the perpetual "exhibitions" of ludicrous behavior :hammerhea
For those without kids, I can certainly understand the fun and entertainment value, but don't quite understand those that have kids getting caught up in the festivities. I am certainly not opposed to having fun, but the kids will always come first and will be with us on almost 95% of the boating trips we take.
Those that have the younger kids and are putting the "adult" fun ahead of the kids will wish otherwise once the kids are gone. You only have so much time with them and you should enjoy and embrace them.