I am having a hard time with the X (imagine that) in reguards to having my boys Connor 3, and Cole 5 yrs old for the summer
We have planned a two week vacation with my family and friends, which includes...Bass lake, lake Tohoe, and lake Shasta. These are places that I have been going since I was their age and want to start traditions with them.
She is telling me...."NO" !!! :frown: :frown:
I see my boys every other weekend and have not been having a hard time with her...untill now!!
I DO NOT have joint custody and have not persued it because she has been good with letting me see them....I want to put my foot down on this because I really want them for the summer..(two weeks)
Do I have grounds to stand on because I don't have joint custody?
Or do I need to go for joint custody???
I just want them to experience the places that I did growing up!!!
Thanks, Cole
JOINT CUSTODY in my opinion is a must. There will always be things in their lives that you may not agree on and its smart to have the legal backup that states you have your say in these matters.
Shared custody is never easy in any situation and I wish you the best.....