Evetything you list can be replaced down the road. If you can maintain the home it's a good solid place you and your kids can call your own home will be a much greater impact on the children... Especially in the early years...
Yeah, what he said. Plus, you'll bounce back quicker than you think. Kids gotta have the stability and having that house building more equity will help you get back your toys. Been down that road....good luck.