Like My Dad Always Said. You Have To Instill Fear In Your Kids. The Kid Should Know That If He Does Something That He Should Not Be Doing He Is Going To Get It. When I Was Growing Up There Was No " I Am Going To Count To Three" Or "do You Need A Time Out". I Hear People Say That And I Start Laughing. If I Was Doing Something Wrong And Was Told Not To Do It Again, I Stoped, Cause I Knew The Next Time I Was Caught Doing It It Was Bam!!!!!! Up Side The Head, And Then It Was " I Told You Not To Do That Again Or You Were Going To Get It".