Use an Alpine with a Sony remote. Why do a flip up monitor anyway? Do an Alpine 9860 DVD in the glove and glass a 7" monitor into the dash. I'll post some pics of one I did.
That was one of my ideas.....but I have 2 flip up monitors sittting in my garage. So I decided to use what I had. my system will be pretty basic.
Flip up Dvd, Ipod, 1amp, 1 10"sub, 4 speakers. second battery with an isolator. Didnt want to add too much to it like Toby's ( I still use mine quite a bit)