Lucky,
I can't even begin to imagine how you all feel and the rollercoaster that has just begun for your family and thiers!!!!
I wish you all the best for your son....I hope he can get through this.....I know you will be there for him through all....but a suggestion ....maybe see if he might need someone else he can talk to also?????
To the other family involved........you are in our thoughts and I hope for the best ......