Thanks everyone....its been 5 years now so I figured it was time to man up and do it. We picked Hawaii because we definitely didn't want to spend the kind of money some of our friends have over the years for a one night event. We have some friends that have spent between $40k and $100k and I just can't justify that.
We are planning on going to the Big Island to Wiakoloa Village Hilton Resort. Anyone been there? How is it?
congrats on the marriage and god bless both of you.........coming from a caterer its easy to blow 40 grand on a wedding but i must agree with you too much for one day but if they want to spend it i willing to cash the checks