Here's what you do. Send a check for two dollars over the amount of the ticket. They will send you back a check for the two bucks. DO NOT CASH IT!!! They can't finish the process until you cash the check. I've heard this a while back, they said it works. Good luck!!
http://www.snopes.com/autos/law/ticket.asp
That doesn't work. And then they know you got the ticket. If you want to beat it, don't do anything with it. It comes first class mail. They can't prove that you ever received it. Read the fine print at the bottom where you have to sign before you send it in.
But if you were legitimately in the wrong, just pay the ticket and get it over with.