My sis' is gettin a divorce. She has two beautiful children. She and the kids are staying at our parents house while the chump is staying in their home. My question is this, is it right for him to allow, and bring around another woman (his girlfriend), let her sleep in their bed with my sis' and his daughter, while he sleeps in another room (supposedly) and allow this other woman to give the kids gifts & sh*t? Is that sending a wrong msg to the kids at 6 and 4 yrs old? I dont have any kids yet. But, I can see where this might affect the kids in a bad way. This Ahole doesnt seem to think it does. Its hard enough for the kids to understand whats happening. But to add another woman to the mix, in what used to be a family home, seems to be a bad move. Just curious if my getting pissed at this ass for doing this is an over reaction.
Thanks....
It's what happens. I have had to learn this the hard way. I myself wouldnt exactly care for it right off the bat, but it really doesn't matter what anyone thinks.... he is his own person and he is going to do what he wants. So like it or not.. it's happening.
He has no idea how this is going to extremly affect his kids in the future. I have been in this situation but in reverse. I was the one who left the home with the kids and she stayed in it. She brought around every asshole she dated around my kids and it has affected them. He needs to think about the kids first...
My sis' is gettin a divorce. She has two beautiful children. She and the kids are staying at our parents house while the chump is staying in their home. My question is this, is it right for him to allow, and bring around another woman (his girlfriend), let her sleep in their bed with my sis' and his daughter, while he sleeps in another room (supposedly) and allow this other woman to give the kids gifts & sh*t? Is that sending a wrong msg to the kids at 6 and 4 yrs old? I dont have any kids yet. But, I can see where this might affect the kids in a bad way. This Ahole doesnt seem to think it does. Its hard enough for the kids to understand whats happening. But to add another woman to the mix, in what used to be a family home, seems to be a bad move. Just curious if my getting pissed at this ass for doing this is an over reaction.
Thanks....Wait a minute! His girlfriend is sleeping with your sister??????
:jawdrop:
Wait a minute! His girlfriend is sleeping with your sister??????
:jawdrop:
wasnt this a porno???
I guess it can go either way. My parents divorced when I was 4years old...my mom would date and stuff, but when I got to the 4th grade she kept bringing around who is now my step dad alot. He bought me and my brother all sorts of things we needed...(We grew up poor) He took us in as his own...my dad was still in the picture, but my step dad was and is a better role model. If it wasnt for him I dont think I would be anything like I am today or where I am at in life. He raised me, taught me alot about business and financing and helped out with soooo much more.
To sum it up, he made myself and my life better.
I'm still trying to figure out who is sleeping with who, although normally I don't give a damn...
yeah...the only part I wouldnt condone is her sleeping with the kids in the same bed. I can see a mother being extremley mad and jealous about that.
After #4 and I split, a few months later #5 started staying over a few nights a week, with her one and a half year old boy. I put the house on the market not too long after, but had a bedroom set up for her boy. I still remember the call after the realtor told my ex that she thought our boys were older and never knew we had an infant...:jawdrop: She asked the realtor why she thought that and was told about the playpen and toys and all in the bedroom. Talk about shit hitting the fan! She told me that no bitch was going to stay in HER house, and I had to inform her to check her divorce papers because it was no longer her house...
Involving kids in the matter we are speaking about though is wrong.
As long as the woman is good to the kids, she should be happy..It could be reversed
More often than not, the kids get mistreated made to sleep on the couch and so on...
This happens alot the other person moving on with their life
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