stilettovdrive,
thanks for your concern. Like you I do not know Steve other than through this board, I just know he is in a position that I would not like to be in.
I also grew up in a country where medical care was free, so was dental care until you reached 16 years of age. School was free as was (excluding private institutions) college!
It is not that way now, the ways of the world change and typically more toward a "user pay" type of system.
Hopefully he will pull through this ok and rejoin his friends at the river soon.