Not changing any words around at all. Call it what it really is: pre-ignition, the uncontrolled ignition of the fuel prior to the plug firing. detonation is the the collision of 2 or more flame fronts creating excessive pressure spikes. What you are calling detonation is pre-ignition, two different things but both will cause engine damage and not just confined to cap walk.
I use detonation as a slang term. (knock, ping, pre-ignite, detonate) It pretty much all produces the same result, broken parts. I dont think there are too many people in this world that could differentiate between them-and which occured when and where. So slang works for me. Perhaps you could shed some light.