Most people on here run 4 blades. Not all, but a large majority. It sounds like you are getting too much stearn lift with the prop you have. When the boat is loaded, it is compensating for this. Thus the prop is getting more bite. I don't think you need to go to a 6 blade. Just something that will give you less stearn lift. BTW, your current prop could be labbed to taylor to your needs.
Darrell.