I run 155 PSI in my merc. I run Av-gas straight, no mix, and have been doing this for more than 5-years. No problems. Motor still has excellent compression. I have been in very reputable shops before (Dick Sherrer Marine & Lakeland Marine) and seen pistons with holes in them, melted pistons, etc. In each case, the engine builder said........."look what bad gas can do, make sure to run good gas and synthetic lube."
I don't understand your point that av-gas will harm my motor (lower life expectancy). I have more than 100 hours on my 155 PSI Merc running nothing but Av-gas. Top RPM is in the 7200 - 7400 range. I would think that if Av-Gas was going to wear it out sooner, it would have done so by now. By the way, do a search and check out what the blower motor guys say. This topic has been covered multiple times. Most of the Blower motor guys run av-gas as well. Few to none have problems.