Remember that thread I posted about my friend who got caught cheating?

[Wmc]

You're right, no doubt. But doesn't the wife bear SOME responsibility for holding out?
You bet!

[luvnhavi]

You're right, no doubt. But doesn't the wife bear SOME responsibility for holding out?
I don't think she should bear responsibility for her husband cheating.....but she should bear responsiblity for the marriage falling apart.
If the sex was that bad.....you should do one of 2 things:
Get help or leave. Cheating shouldn't be an option.

[Wmc]

You bet!
But he is also stupid for talking about it over the internet, where she could find out if she is snooping. Obviously she must have felt suspicious about something.

[luvnhavi]

MWC.......I love your orange and green boat! Those colors rock!

['75 Miller]

I don't think she should bear responsibility for her husband cheating.....but she should bear responsiblity for the marriage falling apart.
If the sex was that bad.....you should do one of 2 things:
Get help or leave. Cheating shouldn't be an option.
Agreed. But look what happened when he did get out. He's the provider, he likely carried this woman as she "never had a real job". What would have been different if he hadn't cheated, but sought a divorce? He'd likely have still gotten the short end of the stick.

[Biglue]

I don't think she should bear responsibility for her husband cheating.....but she should bear responsiblity for the marriage falling apart.
If the sex was that bad.....you should do one of 2 things:
Get help or leave. Cheating shouldn't be an option.
You're absolutely right, cheating shouldn't be an option. And in my opinion neither should it be an option for her taking this guy to the cleaners. Keeping your spouse happy and "satisfied" is an obligation we all have to meet. Obviously she couldn't do that and it turn led up to their demise. They both have their errors to deal with now. That was obviously a 50-50 deal, I don't see how he got half out of their worth. His alimony payments and not getting part of the home alone is bullshit. She hasn't worked WITH A MASTER'S DEGREE. How the f uck does that work? So much for equality.....just my .02.

[luvnhavi]

Agreed. But look what happened when he did get out. He's the provider, he likely carried this woman as she "never had a real job". What would have been different if he hadn't cheated, but sought a divorce? He'd likely have still gotten the short end of the stick.
True true. Just a sad situation all the way around.

[thatguy]

I don't know these principles, but I think everyone has overlooked what I consider the biggest mistake of all.
People who are not compatible getting married and playing house.
Why is the divorce rate so high? People either mis-represent themselves, or are infatuated with the idea of spending their life with this fun other person when they really don't know them at all.
How many out there have pretended to have an interest in some sort of pastime just to be with a person? Lied about your taste in music perhaps?
I speak from experience, by the way. Been in his shoes, right down to the last dollar. It took me 16 years to get back to my life.
MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE MARRYING!!!!
JM.02
Tommy

[Jordy]

MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE MARRYING!!!!
Or just don't get married. Misrepresent yourself all you want. Have fun. Throw her in the gutter and go find another. Repeat as necessary.
Jordy <----- missing Leykis 101

[riverbound]

I feel sorry for both parties involved and especially the kids been going through pretty much the same thing. well except the cheating and asian blow job thing