I'm not chitting you when I say the Roland V-kits are sick. My drummer used these for all our recordings. They are pressure sensative and you can customize them to make any sound you want. It's a little funky to get used to but you won't make anyone pissed when you want to "learn". Just put the headphones on and enjoy.
http://www.adam.com.au/jpmaslin/debugnus/vkit01.jpg