on my 3rd, happily so far
1st, great lady. problem was we were too immature to get married and way too immature to get divorced. We're still good friends. No kids
2nd, sounds kinda like your ex. Mine put me in debt 60K, forged my sig on my business checks, got fired from Nordstroms for theft, fraud and embezzlement.......a real doosie! 3 kids that I got custody of.